Betsy Litzinger, 37, a paralegal with a Buffalo law firm, and her husband, John, 32, an accountant, are both working from their Hamburg home. Betsy has taken on the bigger role of being the teacher for Roman, 12- Landon, 7- Hayden, 5- and Paisley, 3. How does she balance parenting, school and her own work? "I set up a workstation in the playroom so when I am working I can keep an eye on them so they don't tear down the house," she said on a recent day.