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Save your marriage: Consult a counselor

A recent study in the journal Family Relations noted that less-educated couples, or those with a high degree of disparity between education levels, are more likely to divorce than well-educated couples.

Even for well-educated couples, the stress of marriage and the increasing strain on family time brought on by a busy working life can mean a fractured or difficult married life.

When relationships begin to crumble, the best course of action is to consult a marriage and family counselor.

The recipe for disaster in any marriage is a combination of indifference and neglect on the part of the individuals involved in the relationship. Even when one or both members of the couple realize the relationship is in trouble, it can be hard to repair the damage without professional help.

The good news is that there are professional solutions for couples looking for help in maintaining their relationships, and people ideally trained and qualified for that task.

Recent celebrity breakups are a prime example of the kind of stress experienced in any marriage and what can happen if it isn’t addressed with the help of a professional. Take, for example, Courteney Cox and David Arquette who experienced one of the biggest relationship-changers in any marriage – the addition of children. The responsibilities, fears and challenges of parenting can take a toll on any relationship, and if one parent is immature in their handling of the new addition to the family, it can ultimately destroy the marriage.

Musicians Ashlee Simpson and Pete Wentz experienced a similar issue with the birth of their child. When one parent refuses to play the part of a grownup and do their share in the relationship, it can be a deal-breaker without proper professional help.

Financial woes, infidelity and even ego issues all can affect how a couple relate to one another. However, marriage and family counselors who possess a master-level degree in marriage and family therapy have learned how to recognize the symptoms of mental and emotional disorders, as well as common stressors which can affect any relationship.