Dear Abby: My 73-year-old mother took it upon herself to go to a senior center and learn how the computer works -- Internet, e-mails, etc.
She has five children, and we're all on the Internet. She didn't tell us because she wanted it to be a surprise -- and was it ever! I flipped when I turned on my computer and found her name on an incoming message!
We're currently setting up a computer for her. We're all proud of Mom!
-- Colleen in St. Paul, Minn.
Dear Colleen: I salute your mother and the burgeoning number of seniors who refuse to be intimidated by technology. Computers and cell phones have become cheaper and easier to use, and Web-surfing isn't a "sport" that's meant to be enjoyed only by the young. The computer-phobic can learn a lot from your mother's example.
It's your decision to make
Dear Abby: My wife and I have been married five years and have a 4-year-old daughter. Two years ago, my wife cheated on me three times (with three different men). Each time she admitted her infidelity to me the following day.
I was heartbroken. I have fallen out of love with her and no longer find her attractive. I didn't leave immediately because I didn't want our daughter to be raised in a broken home. I thought I could forgive her and get over it, but I can't and don't think I ever will.
Should I leave her or stay in a marriage where I feel I am being unfair to myself and that I deserve better? Please advise.
-- Betrayed in Kansas
Dear Betrayed: I'm sorry your wife cheated on you -- three times, yet. But if you have to ask me for permission to leave her, the answer is no. You'll know the time is right when you are ready to take the responsibility for that decision all by yourself.