Just as I was feeling guilty that April 15 is looming and I haven't finished our taxes yet, I realized that another April date of guilt is approaching -- April 26. That's Take Our Daughters And Sons To Work Day.
Even though I can technically arrange to bring our kids to my workplace, that's the last thing I feel like doing, so I don't tell them about it and then I feel gu…
A couple of days ago, a neighbor sent their son and daughter over to play at our house. The son was charged with calling home from our house to let his parents know they had arrived safely. He forgot, and the parents soon called to summon their kids home immediately.
I was impressed by their zero-tolerance approach to discipline. I know all too many households -- ours inc…
Today's the day we Buffalonians welcome spring (OK, not this year) and the end of Lent with Dyngus Day. Has anyone noticed that Lent seems to be a bit less somber each year? My older daughter announced she was giving up television, and we don't even watch television.
Somber Lent or not, celebrating Dyngus Day is a nice tradition, and one that is primarily a Buffalo phenom…
Once again this year we spring breaked -- leaving us broke -- to New York City, as part of our continuing efforts to inject some street-smarts into our children.
We have both lived and worked in the New York City area and have often thought that kids in the Buffalo area have an innocence about them that those from larger metro areas don't have. Not to say they're innocent…
I doubt that people in other regions of the country experience a spring social awakening the way we do in Western New York.
First, after three to five months of being cooped up indoors, we all shed our parkas as quickly as Alberto Gonzales sheds federal prosecutors. It doesn't take long for the bicycles and strollers to hit the pavement. Socializing with our neighbors is …
I'm simultaneously impressed and repulsed by the American Girl doll
phenomenon. It says something about our culture that wholesomeness is
such a scarce commodity that we are willing to hoard it like crack
addicts. Thus the success of the American Girl marketing machine of
overpriced but tasteful dolls, historical books, and now themed
shopping/real estate destinations in N…
I was saddened to hear about the
return of Elizabeth Edwards' cancer. I hope that her cancer is
treatable and that she enjoys many more years and lives to see her
young children grow up. This is now more possible than ever given the
improvements in treatment for stage IV breast cancer.I commend
her strength and composure during this difficult time, and do not
question the …
The most e-mailed story this year from New York Magazine is Po Bronson's article, "How Not to Talk to Your Kids." The
thesis is that our generation of parents over-praise our children,
which can inhibit their social and academic development rather than
feed them.The article suggests that we commend our children for
effort, rather than results. Bronson descri…